Okay, let’s be real : waiting for someone to text you back can mess with your head. Especially when it’s your ex, your crush, or someone you feel really connected to.
I’ve been there. Staring at my phone, checking their socials, wondering what I did wrong or if they’re even thinking about me.
But something shifted for me, and within 24 hours, I got the exact message I’d been hoping for. In this post, I’ll walk you through what I actually did, how I reset my energy, and the subliminal I used to help speed it all up.
1. I stopped spiraling and got into “it’s already done” mode
The biggest block was my own mind. I was obsessing over it. Constantly wondering if they’d ever text.
At one point, I asked myself:
“What if it’s already happening behind the scenes ?”
That question helped me chill out. I didn’t stop caring, I just let go of the constant mental pressure. I started acting and feeling like the message was already on the way, which completely changed my energy.
2. I wrote down exactly what I wanted (but kept it simple)
I didn’t script some long letter. I just got clear. I wanted a message that felt warm, honest, and kind. Something like:
“Hey, I’ve been thinking about you. Can we talk ?”
I pictured it coming in. Not in a forced way. Just a calm, confident “of course it’s coming” kind of vibe. I imagined seeing their name on my screen and feeling that little flutter in my chest, not from anxiety, but from excitement.
3. I looped a subliminal that shifts your vibe fast
This was honestly a big part of it. I listened to a subliminal while I cleaned, scrolled, or journaled. It runs in the background and feeds your subconscious with beliefs like:
- “They’re thinking about me right now.”
- “I always get the messages I want.”
- “Love flows to me easily.”
It helped me feel more magnetic, like I was already attracting them without needing to do anything.
(By the way, if you want to try the same subliminal, it comes with a free little workbook that helped me get super clear. You can check it out here)
4. I didn’t reach out, I focused on feeling good
I didn’t text them first. I didn’t stalk their page.
Instead, I focused on me.
I danced around my room. I went for a walk. I wore something cute just because. I basically acted like someone who already feels loved and chosen, because that’s the energy that pulls the message in.One last thing I reminded myself…
!! Most importantly, I remembered this : I create my 3D reality.
If I was able to manifest the no contact, the silence, the distance… that means I can also manifest the shift. The apology. The reconnection. The message I want to receive.
Nothing is set in stone. The energy can change the moment I decide it does. That reminder alone made me feel powerful again, like I wasn’t waiting anymore, I was choosing.
And yep, the text came the next day
Literally less than 24 hours later.
A casual, sweet message that opened the door again. No big drama. Just… a shift.
And the best part ? I wasn’t even surprised. I felt so aligned with it that it almost felt natural. Like of course they texted. Why wouldn’t they ?
If you’re waiting on a message right now…
I get it. It can be emotional and confusing.
But if I’ve learned anything, it’s this:
- You don’t have to chase.
- You don’t have to force anything.
- When your energy shifts, everything around you shifts too.
Want to use the same subliminal and workbook I did? You can find it here.
Give it a try, follow the steps, and let yourself be open to receiving.
You’ve got this 🤍


